Mary was staring at the mirror. Looking at the dark spots and the aging lines on her forehead.
Her husband Akshay was standing behind her, admiring her. She appeared contented and he was happy for her.
As they looked at each other, Mary remembered their chat from a few weeks ago…
They had just returned from a party that night and as she sat down to take off her makeup, she realised she didn’t look like herself.
The thick layer of makeup had made her look younger, yes. But it had also given her an almost artificial cover. It was as if there was a thin sheet of plastic on her body, hiding her true self.
She reflected on her last twenty five years of having been used to putting makeup. That had started after college and while it was good for as long as it lasted, after almost turning fifty, she didn’t want to look all dolled up anymore.
She told Akshay in a straightforward manner, not wanting to put it nicely. To her surprise, he took it positively and encouraged her.
His words still echoed in her mind, “It’s not that you’re younger any more. Everyone knows this. So, why pretend if you’re not comfortable with it?”
The next week, as they were dressing to step out for a family get-together, she decided to skip any makeup.
When she got ready, she went up to Akshay. He saw her and knew she had taken his advice seriously. He smiled and hugged her. She looked much more graceful to him suddenly.
The next few days, Mary was very conscious about not putting on any makeup every time she went out. There were few compliments but she also knew that a few people were taking behind her back.
She didn’t get discouraged though. In her heart she knew she didn’t want to prove anything to anyone and was following her own mind. That confidence showed through in her and carried her forward.
Then, after a couple of weeks, it became natural for herself to not think about going out without makeup. And as time progressed, it became usual for people around her to notice her without makeup always.
They slowly started respecting her choice, more so for the move of looking natural. She could sense there were no more ‘behind-her-back conversations’ and she was accepted as she was.
And even if there were any murmurs, she didn’t care about them anymore. She was a free bird again, radiating from every pore of her body.
It was as if in those few weeks, she had rewritten the rule book on how other people perceived her!