We started off as nomads. Adventurous people, living for the moment.
Then, somewhere along the way, we settled down. And became comfortable. With the knowns.
Somewhere, within the economic rhythm of different times, we got the notion that if we settle down and keep working our way through, we will eventually get where we want to.
But what we missed noting is that as our comfort converted into inertia, we got too naive. About other places. About other people. About other cultures. And most importantly about how that newness enriches us.
True, the world has become more globalised. We are travelling far more. People are moving places more than they ever did before.
But are we using that as an opportunity to create that wealth of experience for ourselves? Are we among those people who are ready to have some adventure in life, unsettle a little, experience the wild (not literally always)!
This week, as I started to figure out how to wind up things before a planned relocation, I came across this realization.
Most of us, including myself, in seeking steadiness, have become staid in our lives. We eschew the unknowns, confine to the tried and tested, and smirk at discomfort of any kind.
Even if we face some displacement, there are lot of anxieties that crop up within us. We tend to overanalyse impending changes a lot and weigh too much on pros and cons, to the detriment of our own sanity at times.
It doesn’t need to be so though.
If we just look at life as that adventure that’s waiting to give us a ride, and take ourselves slightly lightly, we will realise that any change is for the good. It always helps uncover things that we didn’t know about ourselves.
And while transitioning through that period of change is cumbersome and not necessary, the process itself yields benefits beyond what we can perceive at the beginning.
Easier said than done, however. Speaking about it from self experience…
Perhaps, the only way out is to believe and roll with it!