I was going through a dull moment. Feeling down and out.
My mind was racing down the spiral, into the nadir. And my demeanour had changed into a sobering, deflated one.
It was a low point. And I was thinking of all the things that had gone wrong. All those mistakes which I could have prevented.
As I gazed into the ether, my inner voice was somewhere egging me to get out of the slump. Trying to remind me of the good things that had happened or which were in store in the future.
But my mind had shut off the good side. The bad side was winning at the moment.
Seeing me lost, my wife came and sat besides me. And told me that when I had overcome so many bigger challenges in my life, what I was going through was relatively minor.
She added that she was fully confident that I would not only overcome this low point but come out stronger on the other side.
As I listened to these words, something stirred in me. I went back to those past challenges and compared those situations with the one I was in currently. I also recalled the success I had seen once I overcame those challenges.
And suddenly, just like a light bulb illuminating a dark hallway, my good side took over and started throwing light over the gloom, pushing the bad side away.
It was just a small statement by my wife. But meant so much to me in that moment when I was feeling low.
My confidence returned and my demeanour normalised. Positive thoughts started coming back and the feeling of I am not alone in this made me sit up with a resolve to fight.
Thankfully, I have her by my side, helping me avoid these pitfalls every now and then!